The Indulgence Called Lingerie And How They Should Work

by Christina Orekogbe on May 02, 2020

The incident of Nicki Minaj’s camel toe appearance during her BET performance rocked the media for a while – our understanding for how it happened is because she wore a super-tight leather suit, it might be most feasible to think that it is almost impossible she wore anything under that suit.

When I see women experience underwear mishaps or I read about them online, two things come to mind: I have half a mind to cry or to give them a thorough lecture. But, I just recite a soothing mantra in my head and walk away in the other direction.

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Now… I know what you’re probably thinking:

“So what?  Yeah, I own a pair of underwear… every woman does…  I only go out to buy or save the best ones for special occasions. That’s all that matters, right?

Sorry to burst your bubble! All that is hogwash. It pains me to see and hear women mention that they haven’t changed their lingerie or underwear in five years or even more than that?  Are those undies competing with Methuselah? Or when ladies strive for the super-sexy look and don’t match their outfits with the right style or size of lingerie.

Don’t get me wrong – I could also have fallen in this category but I didn’t because I realized that buying and wearing high-quality underwear (lingerie) and looking good internally is one of the best investments you can make for your personal self and especially as a woman with a fuller bust.

Throwback to 2017 when Ashley Graham helped four women love their bodies in lingerie. Source: Glamour

Many of us as women do not pay attention to or know how to shop for the right underwear for our body type or the trendy designs we always desire. We are so focused on taking care of others, especially married women- that we forget to realize that we need to pamper ourselves too.

We forget that our underwear and lingerie are just as important – as the outer garments we wear.  Not only do we need to look good for our men (especially those with spouses or in relationships), we need to dress well and pamper ourselves with the right lingerie because WE LOVE OURSELVES!! SELF-LOVE IS IMPORTANT!!!

Big bust brand,
Source: Getty Images

So, listen up! Believe it or not, “Your underwear should be your biggest personal prop – it works wonders and needs no one other than yourself to give yourself the permission to rock on”. And that’s why on this blog, we will always ensure that we show you the best and most effective ways to nail the goal of looking and being body-positive to the highest bars that exist.

Lingerie Affirmations Ever Woman Should Remember

  1. My undergarments are not JUST underwear, they are lingerie, special and should make me feel good.
  2. My lingerie is a luxury and my indulgence. A luxury deserving of every woman – irrespective of her relationship status
  3. Lingerie makes me feel good, sexy, empowered and confident – my private superpower

Now that we have gotten that covered and as a bonus, we are throwing in the link to a body-positive video feature of Ashley Graham that touches on all things style to include some of her preferred dress styles, makeup tips and so much more. Click here to read and enjoy the video.

Till next time, o dabo!

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by Grace Akinkunle on January 24, 2022

I fully agree with Christina about wearing beautiful and sexy lingerie for our own empowerment to make us feel good as women not just for our partners.

Personally I always feel great wearing a matching set and Bustimi has the prettiest collection that cater for my boobs and provides comfort all day long!

by Shonda Bucknam on December 16, 2020

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